How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What is the boldest and craziest thing your mother has ever done for you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can men enjoy receiving anal sex?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If there exists a “New York of Australia”, is it Sydney or Melbourne?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has any man licked his wife's vagina while another man had sex with her?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do I feel worthless most of the time?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why do all the stupid people think Donald J. Trump is stupid?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How is digital marketing important for business?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What was it like being spanked as a kid?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.